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I'm looking for something long term and lasting

Thank you so much for taking the time to read about me and look at my page. My name is John and I live in Jackson, MS. I was married only once and have been divorced now for 25 years. I know, that's a long time . . . a very long time. But it is better to be alone than with the wrong person. So I'm here, looking for the right person, and though I will consider a no strings thing, I would rather find a relationship. I have been divorced for about 25 years and have not been in a relationship (or had sex with) anyone in over 10 years. But I do play by myself, daily. lol

I was a Radio DJ for 20 years and went back to school in 2003 to study for a degree in Computer Information Technology. So I have a BA in Computer IT and work as a computer technician repairing computer and software problems. I am currently working on an internet radio station website and it should be "published" by November 1st.

I am here to meet in person only. I am not interested in exchanging money for sex, paying to view your webcam (private web chat is okay, and I do have a webcam), buy your panties, or any other kind of "private" ventures for your benefit only. I do not join other websites to see your pics.

Some other things I'm not into.
*Controlling behavior, possessiveness, or the Dom/Sub thing. I'm a loving person. I can give love and I can take it.
*Slapping your lover or anything else that could be interpreted as violent behavior during sex (though I do like to spank, if you like that sort of thing). I have never called my lover, wife, or significant other a B*&ch, S*&t, or anything similar. I make love and share love with her, never anything less.
*I do like anal, but I am not into anything connected to pain, humiliation, or bodily fluids. lol I'm normal and expect you to be, too.

If Size matters to you that much, I'm 7 in length, 6 in girth (thickness). And because of a double hernia surgery years ago, I can last for hours. My playtime (masturbating) usually lasts 2-4 hours.

My intentions are serious, I'm not into games. You won't find anyone else here that will treat you better, I'm a perfect gentleman! You can reach me at my screen name at yah mess.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Long
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleComputer Technician

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI'm not picky about looks or body. In fact, I am not attracted to thin under 100 pounds girls. I prefer a little overweight, aged 30-55 and nice breasts. I adore natural breasts, C cup and above. Augmented are okay, as long as they are not hard. Breasts are supposed to be soft. I like to cuddle and feel her breasts pressed against me. Mmmm, nothing better. I was a Topless bar DJ for 10 years and can tell the difference. So I love breasts, it's the first thing I notice. Number 2 and 3 are eyes and lips. I know there is a fad going around about big huge lips and having them artificially resemble the size of Angelina Jolie's lips. Why? I am more attracted to small thin lips. The big lips are very ugly. Unless it is a part of your ethnic heritage and are all natural. But if you performed a procedure to increase the size of your lips, please do not write me. Oh, and I'll be glad to give you my phone number, but I DO NOT text! Use the phone the way it is meant to be used. Call the number and speak through your mouth.
Our first dateNice public place to see if we have that "animal attraction". We can go from there, same night or different night. I'm a patient man and there really has to be an emotional connection between us.

Sensuality and an emotional connection matters more than size. It doesn't have to be an "I love you" commitment. But enough to let her know you care about her and to let her know there isn't anywhere else you'd rather be right now. After all, There is a place you can touch a woman that will cause her to think about you all day long, her heart.

Sexual Activities

Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Pocket pussy
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Pain, humiliation, watersports (has to do with urine, not a swimming pool), mean vengeful sex, torture, calling the other person insulting words. I have a name it's not M**thr F**ker